Maui

I had the good fortune to spend two weeks on Maui on vacation.  It was a much-needed respite from a very busy year.  It amazes me how the sun and sand can recharge me and the kids loved the balmy weather.  Our biggest decision each day was which beach to venture to for that day; knowing that the afternoons were reserved for the pool.  Marine life was abundant; fish making themselves known as soon as we walked into the water.  We sailed out to Molokini one day and snorkeled to our heart’s content.  Fish of all colors and shapes swam with us, quite unafraid.  Fortunately, the eels stayed at the bottom of the reef since they were cool to see but I really did not want a close-up.  And so, I sit at my desk now and dream of the heat warming my back, the relaxed evenings and the next time I will be able to snorkel the fabulous reefs of Maui!

 

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Palm Springs for the Holidays

I was fortunate enough to vacation in Palm Springs over the holidays. I have never traveled over the holidays and it ended up being a nice reprieve. Who could complain about the nonstop sun and 20 degree warmer weather?! I also visited Joshua Tree National Park which is stunningly beautiful and surreal in its own rite. Attached are a few pictures.

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Happy New Year everyone. Tonight I will spend the evening with good friends and good food…a great way to send off 2012!

2012 in Review

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Narita airport, Tokyo

photo 3photo 2IMG_0635My husband has been to Tokyo several times and every time he goes, he sends back the coolest pictures.  These came from his most recent trip.  It is an oragami store.  He said it was so amazing and there was even an oragami that you needed to use microscope to see it.  Definitely, Tokyo is on my list as a “must see”.

Life and Cake

With adversity, comes toughness, grit and love.  I know this because I see this where I live and I live on an amazing street.  There is such a sense of community.  The families on my street often get together “just because” or to celebrate holidays like Halloween.  The moms on the block get together with even more regularity.  It is easy to celebrate when times are good.  But what separates people is what they do when times are bad. 

One of the gals on our street is fighting ovarian cancer at the ripe ol’ age of 39.  She has two children aged two and four.  As soon as we heard the details, we banded together and created a menu calendar–meals are being taken care of for months to come.  Neighbors have their kids over and someone even raked their leaves yesterday! 

She turns 40 today, on the day of her second chemo treatment.  I decided a celebration was in order.  No one should “celebrate” their 40th birthday doing chemo so I invited all the moms on the block over for cake and wine last night.  Eleven women showed up and it was heartwarming to see the love and solidarity in the room.  One of my friends (that does not live on the block) offered to bake the cake for the party.  The cake was delicious and paired well with the laughs and conversation.  I believe our fighting friend and neighbor stands a chance of beating this ugly disease because she knows we are all rooting for her…she can do this!  And we will be an even stronger community when she reaches the end of her chemo treatments.

Red Ridge Farms

We went to Dundee to stay with Eric’s parents overnight for the Thanksgiving holiday.  Despite the downpour today, I really wanted to go on a little field trip to the gorgeous countryside that surrounds Dundee.  It is amazing how many wineries there are.  I have had my eye on Red Ridge Farms, in particular.  It is Oregon’s first olive grove.  Apparently they have over 13,000 olive trees over 17 acres.   We tasted seven different oils and the lemon-infused was my favorite.  We also tried three different balsamic vinegars; the fig was my favorite and the passionfruit was Eric’s favorite.  Needless to say we picked up a few bottles to take home and a few Christmas gifts, too.  The scenery was stunning and the grounds were beautifully landscaped.  I can only imagine how picturesque it would be during a sunny summer day!  It would be a great place for an event or party, too.  We will definitely go back! 

We then headed over to the quaint town of Carlton for lunch.  There were several tasting rooms and unique lunch spots

 and gift shops.  We had a great field trip today.  It is fun to not let the weather dictate what we did today.  And even though the girls protested being out in the rain, I think they came home pretty satisfied, also.

Customer Service

Today’s customer service is way too transactional.  Companies expect you to scroll through a bunch of drop down boxes, narrow down your topic and then read through a frequently asked questions page to “resolve” your issue.  Is that really any way to treat a current, future or soon to be past customer?  A company’s revenue stream?  A company’s lifeblood?  I think not.  We are faced with customer service scenarios many times a day…some good impressions but most abysmal.  Yet some companies get it right every time.  How do they do that?  I think the answer is simple but first, let me share a few of my own recent examples.

 My realtor, Morgan Davis, hosts a referral party every year…15 years strong at this point.  This is a party where those that have bought, sold, referred or just because, get invited to an evening event with fun, frolic and good food.  Each year has a different theme..  This year’s theme was cowboy.  Given that Morgan is from Texas, I wonder what took him so long to come up with that theme?!  Nonetheless, he always chooses great venues, usually one that I am not familiar with.   This years was at Urban Pine.  Basically Texas dropped in the middle of eastside Portland!  On arrival, you were given a cowboy hat and vest, if you wanted.  You then caroused over to the open bar.  You were greeted by black-clad servers hauling around, nothing less than Texas toast with pimiento cheese.  The movie, The Good, Bad and Ugly was playing on two TVs, there was a photo booth (so  much fun) and a fabulous buffet.  Then a comedic skit was done and finally Morgan thanked everyone and recognized two separate people for their outstanding efforts on his behalf.  All in all a great night, that definitely solidifies that Morgan VALUES his customers.

 This party is on top of what he regularly does such as monthly perks, a referral guide and he  even stepped in when he recommended a contractor to me that failed miserably.  Morgan found another contractor and then paid for that portion of the project!!!  Wow!!

 Let’s now flip to the not so good side.  I recently upgraded my phone with Verizon.  I have been a customer for 10 years.  I spent an hour on the phone with the customer service rep.  Got my phone, loved it.  Part deux…I receive my bill and low and behold it is completely different from what she told me it would be.  When I called customer service and spent ANOTHER hour on the phone, he basically told me that the previous rep had misinformed me and he was sorry, but this is what it was.  Can we say DECEPTION!  I requested a supervisor and was told he would call me within 24 hours…can you guess it…no call yet….  Is that really how you want to treat a customer of 10 years that you are making money from each month???  Hmm, makes you wonder.

 So what can companies do to address this abysmal trend of lousy service?  Like most things, it comes from the top and needs to be pervasive in everything the company does…look at Zappos for example….the website, the policies and the interactions with the customer service reps, all scream, YOU, the CUSTOMER, are the most important thing.  But you don’t have to be big like Zappos to offer great customer service..  As a matter of fact, smile at your co-worker, offer to get something done for them and you have just provided great service.  It really is pretty simple.  But until most companies learn this, hats off to you, Morgan Davis and team and the few other companies that really get how important customer service really is.

10K

Yesterday I ran my first 10k race.  Even though I have been running 10k practice runs for a while, there is something heart-pumping about running during a race.  First of all, the conditions are not usually ideal given that you are up at the crack of dawn and running immediately.  Although, that is what I do during the work week, on Saturdays, I like to be a little more relaxed about when I run.  I usually have my coffee, cull through my emails, dilly dally a little bit and then run.

Also, race day almost always guarantees I will be running a faster pace–which is a good thing!  My competitive spirit jumps to the forefront when I am surrounded by other runners suffering just like me!  I like to end my runs with a sprint, but with the faster overall pace, it makes sprinting much more challenging.

I always know I have had a good race when at the end, I want to sign up for another race.  That is exactly what I felt after yesterday’s race.  I felt really strong during the race and knew that my consistent training had paid off.  Of course, runs in the winter in the Pacific Northwest almost always guarantee wet running and I am not sure I am up for that.  So, I think I will keep training and sign up for a 15k in the spring.  Any takers?

The New College Reality

A co-worker loaned me her book, “The New College Reality” by Bonnie Kerrigan Snyder.  Although I have seven years before my older daughter goes to college, the book looked intriguing.  There has been lots of press in the media lately about the true value and benefit of a college education.  I do believe in college.  I think the college experience is valuable for any young adult since they will be faced with lots of “grown up” situations such as learning to live on a budget, managing their time and being strategic about what classes to take.  I worked all through undergrad and managed to finish school without any debt. If you have watched the nightly news, you will see many stories of students saddled with thousands of dollars of debt, with no meaningful job in sight to pay that debt down.

So, yes, I have seven years until the college drama happens, but according to Snyder, this is the best time to start thinking about college and how you will pay for it.  Snyder offers many intriguing ideas and examples.  This really is a great book to help you distinguish the dream of college versus the reality–especially if you need to figure out how to pay for it.  She starts off with ways to minimize your time in college by taking AP courses, CLEP credits and dual enrollment options.  These three things can reduce your time in college which obviously reduces your tuition bill.

The second insightful thing the book focuses on is to think about the career first, college second.  She gives the example of how kids visit the career center right before they are about to graduate (me included).  But, instead, the career center should be your first stop when visiting a college campus  or when your college life begins.  In other words, know where you want to end up and plan accordingly.  Kids need job skills that are in demand…save the art class for an extracurricular activity.

The third idea that I gravitated towards was how financial aid works.  Wow, what an eye-opener!  Parents that are thrifty and conscious of saving and spending really get dinged with the way the financial aid process works–especially if you are middle class.  Snyder suggests some proactive, legal measures to look better on paper.  Having a college degree is no longer enough and thinking you can wait until the last-minute to figure out financial aid is going to leave you with our pants down and a very disappointed child, too.  Buy this book!  I read it in two hours!