Month: November 2012

Life and Cake

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With adversity, comes toughness, grit and love.  I know this because I see this where I live and I live on an amazing street.  There is such a sense of community.  The families on my street often get together “just because” or to celebrate holidays like Halloween.  The moms on the block get together with even more regularity.  It is easy to celebrate when times are good.  But what separates people is what they do when times are bad. 

One of the gals on our street is fighting ovarian cancer at the ripe ol’ age of 39.  She has two children aged two and four.  As soon as we heard the details, we banded together and created a menu calendar–meals are being taken care of for months to come.  Neighbors have their kids over and someone even raked their leaves yesterday! 

She turns 40 today, on the day of her second chemo treatment.  I decided a celebration was in order.  No one should “celebrate” their 40th birthday doing chemo so I invited all the moms on the block over for cake and wine last night.  Eleven women showed up and it was heartwarming to see the love and solidarity in the room.  One of my friends (that does not live on the block) offered to bake the cake for the party.  The cake was delicious and paired well with the laughs and conversation.  I believe our fighting friend and neighbor stands a chance of beating this ugly disease because she knows we are all rooting for her…she can do this!  And we will be an even stronger community when she reaches the end of her chemo treatments.

The Evolution of Calpurnia Tate by Jacqueline Kelly

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I read this book upon the urging of my daughter’s fifth grade teacher.  Even though this book is considered a “middle reader”, it really held my interest.  The book centers around the notion of possibility.  Calpurnia forms a relationship with her distant grandfather, who lives with them on their Texas pecan farm.  The year is 1899 and there are certain expectations for a girl at this time in history.  Cal’s grandfather sees himself as a naturalist and introduces Cal to his love of science and observation.  Cal is quickly drawn into her grandfather’s world, but her mother keeps trying to pull her back into the world of “training to be a good wife” by learning how to cook, play the piano and sew.  Cal has other ideas for her future but is uncertain how she will break with her parent’s expectations.  This is a Newberry Honor Book and definitely worth reading.

Red Ridge Farms

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We went to Dundee to stay with Eric’s parents overnight for the Thanksgiving holiday.  Despite the downpour today, I really wanted to go on a little field trip to the gorgeous countryside that surrounds Dundee.  It is amazing how many wineries there are.  I have had my eye on Red Ridge Farms, in particular.  It is Oregon’s first olive grove.  Apparently they have over 13,000 olive trees over 17 acres.   We tasted seven different oils and the lemon-infused was my favorite.  We also tried three different balsamic vinegars; the fig was my favorite and the passionfruit was Eric’s favorite.  Needless to say we picked up a few bottles to take home and a few Christmas gifts, too.  The scenery was stunning and the grounds were beautifully landscaped.  I can only imagine how picturesque it would be during a sunny summer day!  It would be a great place for an event or party, too.  We will definitely go back! 

We then headed over to the quaint town of Carlton for lunch.  There were several tasting rooms and unique lunch spots

 and gift shops.  We had a great field trip today.  It is fun to not let the weather dictate what we did today.  And even though the girls protested being out in the rain, I think they came home pretty satisfied, also.

Blog Inc.

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I am reading the book “Blog Inc.” by Joy Deangdeelert Cho.  This is an awesome resource for the world of blogging.  Cho offers all sorts of wisdom about building a blog centered around your passion and creating community at the same time.  She begins with the basics, moves on to finding your voice and choosing a platform.  She talks about etiquette, making your blog a businees and even how to get published.  She also covers making money from a blog, but repeatedly states that making money from your blog should not be your priority.  Blogging for profit will be transparent; a blog focused on money rather than a passion will turn off readers.  I love how her book includes interviews with other bloggers because you get to read about many different perspectives.  Every blogger showcased reveals how blogging changed their lives.  

So if you don’t have a blog, yet, pick up this book and get inspired…and get blogging!

Powerful Phrases for Effective Customer Service

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Powerful Phrases for Effective Customer Service  should be required reading for anyone working in a customer service role.  Renee Evenson has worked in the customer service management for over 30 years and this book is a compilation of all that knowledge and experience.  Evenson contends that action coupled with the right words will result in successful customer interactions.  Part one of the book covers the various phrases that demonstrate courtesy, rapport, empathy and a host of additional phrases.  The second section of the chapter examines actions that reinforce those phrases.  Part two includes over 30 different scripts for every possible customer interaction-either positive or negative.  Evenson reports each customer scenario with great detail including the customer situation, some identifying behaviors of the customer, a “Do This!” story, a “Why this works” and finally tips on applying the suggested approach.  Evenson also covers 20 different situations when the customer service person commits a gaffe with the customer such as when the customer rep says something tactless.  Evenson’s final chapter encompasses phrases for social media interactions.

Evenson has written an invaluable tool and resource for the customer service provider.  This is a book that you will refer to repeatedly.  Evenson suggests appropriate, effective behaviors that will improve any customer service interaction.  The social media chapter is not as robust as the other content in this book, which is the one improvement I would suggest.  Otherwise, this book is one you will want to keep handy when customer interactions run afoul or you just want to review how you handled a situation.